Tonight our great prophet, President Gordon B. Hinckley passed away, at age 97. He died at home, with his family beside him, at 7:00 p.m. When I found out, I was upstairs reading with Aubrie. Ben came in her room with a very serious demeanor and I knew something was wrong. Amber had texted everyone, of course hearing it so quickly living in Utah! At first I was stunned and could see Ben's eyes teared up. The tears quickly began to fall down Aubrie's face. She was very upset about it, which jump started my water works. We are so happy that he finally gets to be with his wife, who passed several years ago, but we all feel a great loss! He was such an amazing prophet! He was so good publicly, and always made us laugh. I never felt so loved by someone I never met, except the Savior and Heavenly Father, of course! Every time he spoke in General Conference, or at BYU devotionals, I felt so loved by him and felt the wonderful Spirit he brought with him. It's amazing how we can feel such a loss for someone we never met! We are so grateful that we got to live during the generation of President Hinckley! What a great man! We will miss his youthful, vibrant spirit!
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Goodbye to a Wonderful Prophet!!!!
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Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Sick on Vacation
For the holiday weekend, Ben and I decided to get out of the cold (yes we are Arizona wimps) and go to California for the weekend. Guess we should have checked their forecast first! California was freezing! We left Thursday, after Aubrie's voice lesson, and arrived there around 10:00pm California time. The trip out there went well. Sophia cried a little here and there, but nothing Aubrie couldn't handle in back! She is a life saver on trips! Little mini-Mom! We stopped at McDonalds for dinner around 8:00 and let the kids burn off some energy. Afterwards, I put all the kids in their PJ's and they all fell asleep within 10 minutes of being back on the road. Of course, once we got to Danny's they were all fired up again!
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Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Day with the Cousins
Yesterday I watched Shea and Carson. I knew I had to wake up early to get my work out in, so I was up, exercised, showered and ready by 8:00. I realized how much I could probably get done in a day if I always started my mornings like that....to bad I'm not a morning person! By the time they got here Ethan was already at school and Sophia was napping. Shea was anxious for the kids to get out of school. Every 20 minutes or so she would ask when we had to go get Ethan. She was running to the car when I said it was time to get him. Ethan played well with both of them. Carson enjoyed riding around in Ethan's car and Ethan had fun on the teeter totter with Shea. They spent a lot of time outside and occasionally would come in to start a movie, only watching about 10 minutes. The day went fast! Before I knew it, it was time to pick up Aubrie and Boston from school. That was kind of interesting having all 6 kids in the car. A total of 5 car seats!! It all worked out but made me think of how those Mom's do it that have a like 6 kids under 8!!! There would be no more running to the car a few minutes before you had to be somewhere. You would have to set aside 5 minutes of buckling time! LOL
Matt came and picked the kids up before Aubrie had dance.
Ben actually made it home to take her, which left me at home with some spare time to relax. Sophia didn't fall asleep for her 3rd nap until 5:00 (its usually 4). (She slept until 9:0o and went back to bed at 9:30. Sunday night she went down at 4:45 and woke up at 5 the next morning, just for a bottle.) We did our family night on the Exodus and how God answers prayers and how you have to have faith He will deliver you from your trials. Our closing song was "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam", and I asked the kids what that song meant. After explaining what being a Sunbeam meant, Boston got up and told us about his day at school and how he was a Sunbeam. A girl in his class was making fun of another girls coloring. She told the girl she wasn't doing it right. The girl started to cry. Boston said he said, "Do you know what I like about you, you are a good drawer. I also like the way you color. Do you know what, too, you have a nice room and a nice house....even though I haven't seen them yet!" (random, huh?). Anyway, he said the girl stopped crying. Where was the teacher on that one, b/c he didn't come home with a Yee Haw (recognition certificates they hand out on a daily basis)? Instead he came home with a red for accidentally writing on his desk and getting out of his seat! I told him to put a quarter in the jar anyway!
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Saturday, January 12, 2008
"Burning" in the Snow
One of my New Years resolutions was to start working out on a consistent basis. Unfortunately, I am far from being a morning person, which is my only possible time to work out, so I haven't been very good at sticking with anything. I finally committed to an exercise program which takes me through 6 weeks of grueling work outs and eating low calorie meals! Surprisingly, I haven't had too much of a problem with eating well and getting up to work out. The hardest thing was realizing my body is way out of shape and having to deal with the soreness. This week I was hating that we lived in a two story house! I finally started feeling a little bit better on Thursday, but still had some soreness in my legs....those evil squats!! Friday afternoon Ben surprised me with a professional massage as a "reward". I think he felt sorry for me.
After the massage, Ben and I caught dinner and a movie. We saw the Bucket List. It was a great film....funny, serious, tear jerker, etc. We saw our Bishop there, the second movie we have seen him at this month. Guess we are watching good films!LOL After the movie, we did our regular Walmart Stop and ran into some old friends we saw there last month, on a date night. Two "run in's" in a row....weird!
This morning I woke up early (Wow! ) and worked out before we left for Flagstaff. My Mom was great enough to watch Sophia for us, so we didn't have to drag her along. Flagstaff was covered in snow. In fact, we didn't even have to go all the way up to Flagstaff to find a place to sled. We took an exit, about 15 minutes out of Flagstaff, and followed it up to a great spot. Soon after we got there about 6 other cars showed up. Guess it's a common place...it was a lucky guess. We had a great time and so did the kids. Ethan was having a hard time climbing the hills b/c the snow was so deep. So Ben and I (mainly Ben) had to carry him. It was very hard on my legs from all the working out I have been doing, therefore the "Burning in the Snow"! After an hour and 1/2 of sledding, the kids started getting wet ( mainly Boston's hands) so we packed it up and headed out.
On the way home we were all hungry and we saw a sign for Johnny Rockets. We have a weakness for that spot since Ben and I both worked there. (So much for a low calorie diet!) We didn't realize that the restaurant was in a Casino, but luckily it was right by the doors so we didn't' have to pass by too many slots! The kids enjoyed a fun lunch! They all took turns picking out songs on the juke box, and were lucky enough to see the employees dance. We dared them to go out and join them, and finally Aubrie and Boston got out and started dancing. The people in the restaurant got a kick out of it and later on Boston said that was his favorite part of his day. Right next to Johnny Rockets was a bowling alley. The kids begged and we caved( I actually wanted to play myself!). So we all played one game. The kids did really good, carrying their own balls and throwing them themselves. Boston had a good spin on his, Aubrie was all about THROWING it down the lane, and Ethan was good with the Granny style. They all scored around 60, which isn't bad without help. I won't mention my score! Ben ended w/ 2 strikes! All I have to say is that Wii bowling threw me off!LOL
On our way home the kids starting fighting over Boston's Nintendo DS. Thankfully, I remembered the Alphabet game, and Aubrie really had a good time doing that. She wanted to play it the whole way home. Towards the end, Boston joined in, too! We ended up playing it 5 times.
We finally got home around 4:30. I really missed Sophia, and was excited to see her. She was happy and kept following me wherever I went. It was really cute. I spent time with her and watched some professional ice skating , the kids played w/ friends and Ben started putting his weight set together. Ben has had so much exercise equipment through out our marriage, and hasn't ever really used it! It all started our first Christmas when he asked for an Ab Roller. That never got used! I'm hoping things will change w/ this "gym" he is putting together in the garage!
Tonight the boys went hot tubing while Aubrie and I played Memory. Then we all played Disney scene it? The kids have had a FULL day, and I am exhausted. Thank Heavens for a day of rest....ha! I wish Sunday's were restful. Maybe when Sophia is in the Nursery!
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Thursday, January 10, 2008
Back in Session
Well school is back in session and things are getting back to normal around here, which includes waking up early, dealing with homework and after school activities, ugh! The bright side is that it gets me going in the morning and having a structured day is good for us! The kids have done well, jumping back into the thick of things. Ethan is doing great, too! I was concerned he might slip back into his old ways...crying and whining, but he is doing so well we are now trying preschool 3 days a week. Today he was a little confused at first, but I told him to give me "5", and he did and then he was off to play.
Ethan has had some "funnies" and some "firsts" this week. This Sunday was his first Sunday in the primary. I wasn't there for it, b/c I was sick:( But here it is from Ben....
He was not too happy to go in since he would no longer be treated to treats on demand and toys all over the place. I took him into the primary room and he would not let go of me and started to fuss. His new teacher, sister Rigby, asked Ethan to be her special helper and ended up holding him in her lap for the entire time. I think that Ethan was working her, but he seemed content sitting in her lap. I checked in on him every now and again to make sure that he was alright. He seemed to be fine as the day went on.
....thanks Ben. Wish I could enjoy the help of more entries from him, but I'm not counting on it!
Monday morning I had to get Ethan out of bed to go to school. He was not waking up and so I had to dress him while he laid there comatose! I had to leave his room for a second to get something and when I walked back by his room I saw him sitting up on his bed. When he saw me he quickly laid back down and pretended he was sleeping, again. I said "Ethan, I caught you" as I continued to walk on by. He then yelled back, "you got me Mom, you got me!" Then on Wednesday I was getting him ready for school and he pulled his Book of Mormon out of his drawer and said, "Mom I'm going to bring this for Show and Tell". I told him that was a great idea, but he needed something that started with an "S". He said, "I know Mom, Scriptures!" I was impressed!!! Then I told him to go put them in his backpack and get his shoes on. When I came downstairs that funny boy was making his own lunch. He actually thought about how he needed a lunch, and by the time I got down there he already had a yogurt and applesauce with a spoon in there. I asked him if he wanted a sandwich, as I pulled a sandwich out of the fridge I had already premade. He said, "Oh ya, that would be GREAT"! The things he does just take me back! I just LOVE his personality.
Today Ethan was having grahm crackers w/ milk. I told him to he should keep the cup on the paper plate, so he wouldn't drip milk on the table. He didn't want to do it that way. Two minutes later he said, "Ooops, I spilled milk. I'm sorry Mom! I should have listened to you". If only I could hear that from my children more often!!
Aubrie had a BIG learning experience this week. She has been wanting a new Comforter for a VERY long time. Her's was getting old, faded and falling apart. They were having a sale at Target on a really cute quilt, and so I bought it and surprised her with it on Monday. Last night Ben told her to go to bed, but instead she started coloring on her bed (with marker). Well I probably don't have to tell you the rest. It ended in much tears and apologizing and me telling her it wouldn't come out and that when you don't' obey sometimes bad things happen. She said she prayed that it would come out, and I told her that maybe Heavenly Father wanted her to learn her lesson on obeying. I told her that everytime she saw the mark it would remind her to be obedient. She then said, "Well did he have to make me learn that lesson when my bedspread was so new"! Ha!!!!! After I was done controlling my laughter, I told her that she probably wouldn't have learned much if it was an old bedspread. Luckily the mark is up by the pillows...easily disguisable!;)
Aubrie has a hard time staying on task! She is so easily distracted with things going on around her. On Tuesday it took her 3 hours to do chores that should have taken 20 minutes. I decided to try a timer. Yesterday I set the timer and watched her go to town. She put her ipod on and quickly went to work. She was done w/ chores, reading and homework in an hour! Why didn't I think of the timer earlier? duh!
I was on Bostons bad list this morning. He came to me this morning (why not yesterday?), with tears in his eyes, saying "I missed Ben's birthday party". Ben is one of his best friends at school. They had his party January 5th and handed the invitations out before school got out....you do the math and factor in Holiday chaos!! He cried all through breakfast. Not that spoiled brat cry, but that "I feel so bad I missed his party" cry. I felt awful, and am trying to arrange a play date for the two. I love Boston's sensitive side, but sometimes it can be so heart wrenching!!
This afternoon Aubrie had her first singing lesson. He teacher made a CD of her lesson, so she could practice along during the week. It's almost a free lesson for the rest of us! She said Aubrie did well and seemed to really enjoy herself! After her lesson she went to Madison's (her best from from Kindergarten) birthday party at Pump It Up. Aubrie is excited to go to West Wing next year and be with her. While she was there the rest of us went to Streets to eat and "celebrate" Boston having made first Honors last semester. Yeah, I know he is in Kindergarden, but if we make it a big deal now hopefully he will keep up the good work! We were going out to eat anyway, but he didn't know that!;) After Streets we picked up Aubrie and made a Target run, I think my 5th this week....pathetic!
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Friday, January 4, 2008
Thursday, January 3, 2008
Happy New Year!
Wow, I am still recovering from New Years Eve. Usually Ben and I ring in the New Year in our own family room, with a bottle of Sparkling Cider, watching the ball drop at Times Square. I remember one year, and I'm thinking it was last year being pregnant and all, that we went to bed before Midnight. Well we made up for that this year.
I started my day with a Mother/Son date with Boston. We went to see the Water Horse, which was pretty good, and then we walked around the Mall. Then we made a stop at McDonald's. I asked him to pick ANYWHERE he wanted to eat, and lucky me I got to go to McDonald's...ha! ha! While we were in the play area Boston asked me to time him as he raced through the play structure. He did that a couple of times, and had fun trying to beat his previous "time". As we were leaving to go home I asked, "Boston, what was your favorite thing we did today?". I was expecting him to say the Movie, or the kids pack I bought him at the Theatre that included popcorn, candy and a drink (total rip off by the way). But, NO, he said, "me racing through the play area?" I guess next time I can save 30 bucks and skip the movie!!
For New Years Eve we went to the Frandsen's house to ring in the new year. My Mom was great enough to watch the kids. Ben and I grabbed some dinner and killed some time at Walmart and Blockbuster before we headed over to their house. On the way over there I was telling Ben how tired I was. That was at 8:30! We started off eating, well not me b/c I was full from dinner, and socializing. Then we decided to start a game of Mofia. That basically took us till 1:30am!! You would think that would be enough, but then they pulled Rock Band out and we played that until 2:30. After talking for another hour, we were out the door by 3:30 and home a little before 4:00. Unfortunately I have this problem where I have to wind down a significant amount of time when I get home from something. So I didn't fall asleep until a little before 5:00....ouch!!
On New Years day Ben took the kids over to his brother, Matt's, to check out some new stuff he got and to visit. I was able to get an hour nap in....not enough! I spent the rest of the day cleaning out my closet, a task I haven't tackled since we moved in! Goodbye maternity clothes, in between clothes, and way too skinny cloths!!! I was too tired to make dinner, so we ran in the New Year w/ McDonald Happy Meals and Panda Express...LOL!! Aubrie gave a cute FHE, she read the Christmas Story out of Luke by herself, and had the kids act out stuff. A week late, but still very cute. We also went over family goals for the year. One of our family goals is to work together as a family. When the kids do something good we will put a quarter in a jar and when the jar fills up we are going to Disneyland. It's a big jar!:)
I was so tired by the end of the night, but we still had Ben's sisters and Mom over for some Chicken Feet ( a cool domino game). I probably would have not had them over, but Amber was going home the next day. They left around 10:00. We had fun!
Yesterday I really felt my lack of sleep and I started getting sick. I was so tired throughout the day...my old body sure can't take the late nights!! I cleaned out Sophia's closet and started on Aubrie's. I actually mustered the strength to make dinner. Ben took the boys to the mall to return some shoes so I could relax. Aubrie was such a big helper with Sophia. She played with her and fed her, while I lied comatose on the couch. She even put her to bed!! Then I could hear her in the kitchen doing something with water. She brought me a glass of water and a bowl with water and a washcloth. She put the washcloth on my head. I guess she thought I had a fever:) The 20 minutes of sleep I got on the couch threw me off, and so I still didn't fall asleep till Midnight.
Today was much better. It took me awhile to get out of bed, but once I did things were productive. We made a trip to the Mall and got a few errands accomplished! We had a few "circus acts", Ethan banging his head in the shoe store and some teenagers cutting in front of me in line at another store, RUDE! But we survived it all and made a short stop at McDonalds for an ice cream cone and a little time in the play area. I was the hero!;) Sophia did so well the whole time. Tonight we made our "family" trip to Sams and Walmart for some groceries and school supplies. I guess they like to get us twice a year now!!
Well that's the New Year so far. I haven't exercised yet, that will come when school starts...along with the good eating! So far scripture study and maintaining my composure around the kids is going good!!:) I love the New Year....a fresh start!!!
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