Tuesday, May 18, 2010

A Change of Plans

Mother's Day started out normal, with Ben waking me up for my Mother's Day surprise. This time I came down stairs with printed out pictures of scorpions, spiders and such all over the floor. It was supposed to be my Mother's Day Scavenger Adventure! The first thing I was lead to was the picture of the kids on our computer screen, to remind me of what it's all about. I was then lead outdoors to the tire swing, where I dug up a sweet letter from Ben. Finally, I was directed to my gift in the BBQ; a much needed new pair of running shoes! Then the kids got busy making me breakfast.
We had a kink in our day, as Sophia was coughing like crazy and there was no way I could take her to church. I couldn't' imagine staying home and being without the older ones, but I also couldn't imagine being away from her. I told Ben I didn't want my family to be divided for Mother's Day and that I would rather we all stayed home and the kids could all sing to me here. Well, that wasn't exciting enough to celebrate my special day, so we decided on a picnic. Of course, a picnic in 90 degree weather is no picnic, so I suggested we take a drive up North and enjoy a picnic there. Montezuma's Well came to my mind. We had gone there for a family picnic when Ethan was only a month old, and I remember it being very secluded and quiet. I knew that was the place for us. On the way up I was trying not to feel guilty for skipping church as the kids were asking why we were buying gas on Sunday! I tried to talk to them about the ox in the mire! I am always quite hard on myself when I miss. I hardly missed even when I had babies! I do admit that this ended up being the BEST Mother's Day for me EVER! I had such a great time with the kids.
When we first got there we started on lunch, and Sophia was not in the mood to eat. Ben told me she felt hot, and when I felt her she was burning up. Ben went to get some Tylenol while the kids and I played some crochet.
We never seem to have time for things like that these days. We had such a great time! When Ben got back he laid down on a blanket with Sophia, while the kids and I went exploring.
They have all these mini-canals that are meant to irrigate the park. They have valves that you can open and close. The kids and I had fun opening them and following where the water went. One of the canals went quite a long way, so we ended up turning around. When we got back I laid down with Sophia while Ben played another game of crochet with the kids. After that game the kids had fun climbing this tree!


We ended up spending about 3 hours in the park. It was so fun and relaxing, and Sophia even enjoyed herself napping, and watching the squirrel's and cardinal's in the trees.
After our time at the park, we headed over to the Well. It's small lake where Indian's used to live. A lot of their houses are still there. They are built in the side of the hill.
The kids had fun checking that out, along with other beautiful things on the trail. After walking those trails, we headed home.
Such strong boys holding up this rock! LOL
How do u think this cactus started growing here?



We got back around 6, and watched Funniest Home Video's before we put the kids to bed.
Usually on Mother's Day I feel frazzled trying to get kids ready for church, etc. Then when I get home Ben always watches the kids while I nap, or do something for myself. This year I spent Mother's Day like it's meant to be spent....enjoying my kids and being Mom!

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Busy and loving it!

It's funny how it works....when you have a lot to write about there is no time to write it down, and when you have plenty of time to journal, you have nothing to write about. The past couple of weeks have been very full. I am learning to like busy, because when I'm not, I don't know what to do with myself. Busy keeps my mind from thinking about things that don't matter, or over thinking them. So, no more complaining about being busy.
I am very routine oriented, and a few weeks ago my morning routine changed and has kept me busy! Typically I have been jumping on my elliptical as soon as I send my dear sweet children off to school. I would do that for a half and hour, and then finish my morning with chores, shopping, running Sophia to the library, etc, before nap time. Now I send the kids quickly out the door so I can make it to the gym. I realized that I needed a little extra push in the exercise department. While my weight was where it used to be, for some reason my body parts aren't. I got the gym salesman to give me a sweet deal, and I made it my birthday present! I could tell that I wasn't as in shape as I thought, as I found my self hobbling up my stairs the first week. Being sore is a love/hate relationship for me. I LOVE that I know I actually worked something really good, but I hate the pain. I have been quite diligent, going every day (minus a few that Sophia was sick). I have to say that it actually is saving me money, too! How you ask? The time I spend there is less time I have to spend shopping! What a great budgeting plan!
The children's activities have also kept us very busy. The weekend after Aubrie's party was VERY full! Friday, Aubrie had a her much awaited class field trip to Flagstaff. She had to be at the school by 6:00am. Thankfully, Ben had an early job and it worked out perfect for him to take her!! Waking her up wan't a problem. I never saw her get ready so fast! It's amazing how she hasn't been able to do it since! I had to get up and exercise before school, because that morning I was going to Ethan's class for his Rodeo Day. Friday night Boston had a football game and Aubrie got home at 8:30 from her field trip. She went right to bed because she had a dance competition the next morning. We were up at 6 and out the door by 7 to get to her dance competition in Gilbert. Meanwhile, Ben stayed back and juggled 3 football games, and two soccer games, with the three kids. He is a champ! Aubrie and I finished just in time to rush back to watch Ethan's music performance, and then Ben and I headed off to dinner! My pillow was my best friend by the end of the night! Of course, I won't be leaving you hanging on all those events, so I'll break them down.
Aubrie's Flagstaff Field Trip
Aubrie had a GREAT time. They enjoyed the comforts of a charter bus for the journey. The kids had a fun time watching movies on their ipods, texting each other in their DS chat rooms, etc (time sure have changed!). Aubrie loved all the activities and places she visited. She couldn't stop talking about them. Her favorite place seemed to be where she got to see some old Indian ruins and look at their pottery, living quarters, etc. She was digging around in some dirt, and she swore she found a piece of broken pottery!;) Do I see an archaeologist in her future?!!! For dinner they stopped at a Peter Piper Pizza, and of course I don't have to say how much fun she had doing that with all her friends from school. I'm glad her competition was only on Saturday so she could go on this trip!
Ethan's Rodeo Day
Rodeo Day was a blast! The kids all dressed up in the cutest outfits, and had fun with so many cute activities. The first activity was actually two. They panned for gold and shaved. How did they do that? Well, they gave them real shaving cream, and they used the big popsicle sticks to "shave". They had hand held mirrors, and a water basin.
For the panning for gold, the teachers spray painted rocks gold and they used the sand toy sifters to pan with. It was so cute!
The next activity was their "branding"! They branded each class with their own symbol using letter stamps. They then did a color activity.
The next activity was horse racing. They had made horse heads early in the week, and they slipped them over yard sticks. They had a blast doing this.
After that activity they moved on to musical chairs. Ethan was cracking the lady up who was in charge, and she kept saying how funny he was. I kept silent, until one of the Mom's told her he was my son. He was just being himself. Dancing and jigging to them music, without a care in the world!
After musical chairs, they moved on to lassoing stuffed animals.
Then they all ate their smores, that the Mom's made and were baking in the sun during their activities.
Here is what a lot of the smores turned out like.
The Mom who did it admitted that it was probably her, and blamed it on sleep deprivation. To her defence, she is a Mother of a newborn baby! I'm so glad I went. What a fun time, and I got a lot of great pictures for his class slide show!
Aubrie's Dance Competition
Aubrie did very well. She had a lot of energy in her dances and she smiled a lot this time. Her groups did well, but this competition had a few studios that were very competitive. The girls from these studios spend about 10 to 12 hours at their studio (at least) a week. Luckily the girls are still young enough not to notice and are just happy knowing they performed their dances well. The competitions are usually great about awarding all the girls with something, and so they don't figure out the ribbon placement until they are older. They just know they ranked Gold, and are so memorized by the trophies that the ribbons don't seem as important! I'm proud of Aubrie and all her hard work at dance!
Boston's games
Well, Boston missed his soccer game. I thought it was at 9:00, but when he got there his team was walking back to their cars. Oops. I looked at the next weeks time. Ben said Boston was pretty upset about the whole thing, but luckily his foot ball games made up for it! Honestly, we thought that Boston's tournament would be short lived. We figured he would have two games at most. There are some really good teams who have been around for awhile, and dominated. Boston is a great player and has great teammates, but we knew they were outmatched. We were pleasantly surprised when Boston's team won all three games on Saturday. I was quite sad, actually, to have missed them. Ben kept texting me the scores, and I was so happy, picturing Boston's huge smile on his face after every game. He was so proud to have his medal. (Even though every team got one!)

Sophia having fun at the games!

Ethan's game
Ethan was picked up by a soccer team just a few weeks ago. I was a little nervous since he had only played in a rink. I just could imagine him kicking the ball out of bounds and way past the soccer net every time. Ben wasn't there to watch, since he was at the football game, but his coach said he did really well. Ethan was really excited to play. His enthusiasm for soccer has skyrocketed since he has been playing for this team. It's so fun to see him get so into it.
Ethan's music performance.
Ethan is such a crack up! I see somewhere in his future getting nominated for class clown. He always puts a funny spin on everything. Sometimes it's not the right time, but he still gets a laugh, because you just can't help yourself. It's not like he is trying to be disrespectful, he just finds the humor in everything. I guess that's a talent. He was cracking us up (along with many others as I found out later) during the music performance. There were several parts where kids got up and played tone bells to certain songs. When Ethan was on the tone bells, he not only played the bells, but bounced up and down to the beat of the music. It wasn't settle in any form. The funny thing is, I don't think he even really noticed he was doing it until he saw us laughing and smiling. He was very dramatic throughout his performance. I loved that he wasn't shy in the least bit, too! I thought he might be a bit nervous, since going was kind of a last minute decision. We didn't know if the games would be done in time, so I didn't think he was going. Luckily he can go with the flow like a champ! It amazes me how he has learned so much from that class, especially when he refuses to listen to the CD's or practice anything. Guess he is actually doing some listening in between all his clowning around!


Sunday, May 2, 2010

Mission Accomplished

Yesterday was Aubrie's birthday party. I have been planning on doing something real special for her since it was her special "double digits' birthday. I wanted it to be her most memorable birthday party ever. Castle and Coasters is a miniature golf/ amusement park close by. I thought that would be the perfect way to celebrate. I was glad to see that they were so reasonable!!! I let Aubrie invite 10 friends. Between me and my friend, that meant being in charge of 5 ten year olds.
I had most of the girls meet at our house at 12:15, so I could drive them there. The party started in the party room at 1:00. There we had pizza, cake and opened gifts. Aubrie wanted a cheesecake for her birthday cake (a girl after my own heart). Aubrie and the adults were the only ones that ended up eating it! Everyone at home was thrilled that we had leftovers! Aubrie got a lot of good stuff, including several gifts cards to Tilly's and tonz of Justice stuff, including a cute bathing suit! Aubrie can't wait to go shopping with her gift cards!






After time in the party room, we headed out to hit some rides. In the beginning there were only a few girls brave enough to ride the bigger rides, so Aubrie decided on rides everyone wanted to do.







After about an hour, we did a round of miniature golf. At first I thought it was going to take FOREVER to get 10 girls through a round of miniature golf, but then I realized that they weren't going to play like adults. They were basically running from green to green, and picking up their balls and putting them in the holes, if they couldn't get it in after a few hits, or if the others were getting too far ahead. It took them about 40 minutes, and they all had a fun time. At one point a ball went into the water, and not surprisingly, Aubrie was the one who fetched it out!
After golf, some of the girls got more brave, and we got almost everyone on the big roller coaster. Once they all went on it and realized it wasn't that scary, that became the favorite and they become more brave to ride the other rides.
We finally headed out at 6:30. The girls had fun chatting in the car, and I dropped the last girl off at 7:45. Aubrie had a fun time going through all her gifts. She joined Ben and the kids in the hot tub in her new bathing suite, and quickly passed out watching a movie. Before she fell asleep, she said that this was her best birthday party ever. Mission Accomplished!

Saturday, May 1, 2010

10, 14 & 35

Anyone know what these numbers have in common? They all happened on the same day! Here is to another Pribyl Holiday, also known as April 26th! Aubrie turned 10, Ben and I have been married for 14 years, and I am now officially in my mid-thirties! That doesn't even sound right typing that last one. I don't feel that old, except maybe by the end of the day!


This year Aubrie had her birthday party at Castle and Coasters , but for her actual birthday we put streamers in door, took ice cream sandwiches to her class, let her skip dance, and took her ( and me) to Texas Roadhouse. We also let her open her gifts. It's kind of nice when your kids want clothes for their birthday, because it's like killing two birds with one stone. (And as I type that saying I'm finally realizing how cruel it is!) A month before her birthday I had her circle things she wanted in the Justice catalogue, and I went there with a 45% off coupon the next day. A whole summer worth of clothes for 150 bucks!!!! Aubrie thought she hit the jackpot, and so did I with that smoking deal!!!

My birthday was spread out over the week. This year my friend wanted to do something big, but after last years huge celebration with friends, I wanted to stay low key. Ben took me out for lunch and gave me my gifst on my birthday, and several friends took me out throughout the week and dropped by with gifts. I have to say that doing it that way was fun, but not good for the scale! Lots of eating out sure catches up with you fast! I am grateful for so many good friends who turned a start to a sad birthday into an amazing one. Heavenly Father's tender mercies helped me see how much people really cared about me. He is always so good at finding ways to help me see that, when I have hard things come up! It's so great to know that he looks after me in such personal and specific ways!

Wednesday Ben and I had the opportunity to make it to the temple for our monthly visit. I was afraid we were going to miss it because his recommend had expired and we didn't realize it till we were getting ready to go a few weeks ago. Our calendar was full and I was panicking that we would miss this month. I dropped a few things on Wednesday to make sure we could go. It was a great experience. The sealer spoke with the group for about 15 minutes, answering questions and offering insight and advice. What a great way to celebrate and remember the commitment we made 14 years ago. It's hard to even imagine our life then. We have been parents for the most part of our marriage, and those first 4 years without them seems like such a distant memory, and one that while was fun and effortless, is not half as fulfilling as the one we have now with our beautiful family. While April 26th often seems busy with all the celebrations, it's also a GREAT day and a reminder of how my life IS a celebration mainly because of my marriage and my family! Here is to another PRIBYL DAY HOLIDAY!!!

Deja Vu

What are the chances that two of my kids have the same field trip within the month. If I wasn't putting together the DVD for his class, and responsible for the photography, I would have skipped this one. I'm glad I didn't! It was a BEAUTIFUL breezy day, and there were many cool things to see, that weren't there the last time. It is also fun to see Boston interact with his friends, and catch up with his teacher and the Mom's. The bus ride was great because his class had one bus all to themselves, which meant less noise and plenty of room to spread out! Here are some pics!

That's a lot of lunches!
The Bus
Beautiful!

One week old Ocelot (Born on Sophia's b-day)....So CUTE!!
The Walk About!
"Squints" at the Parrot Feeding!


Lunch Break
Stingray Exhibit