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Tuesday, April 22, 2008
New Addition..MEOW
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Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Ok...now to catch up!
Last week....hmmmm....can I remember that far back! LOL Here is the quick run down with photos and funnies!
Thursday I was busy with life and getting things ready for company. I used to be fanantic, making sure the house was perfect when company came. Now I'm realistic! The house is going to get dirty when company come to stay, especially if they have kids, so why clean it? Of course, I tidied up and put clean sheets on the beds, but seriously...why mop floors, etc?! For some reason I didn't have time to go grocery shopping, so I hit Walmart and Sams at 8:00 at night and got the fridge stocked about 30 minutes before the Hellewell's arrived. We stayed up for a few hours and talked before we all went to bed.
Friday the kids still had school. So the Hellewell's went to visit their Grandpa, while Ben worked, and I got some more flowers and planters for out front! I probably should have started this project a few months ago, b/c now it 's getting really hot! When everyone got home, we went swimming until dinner. Mark and Kristin have a 8 year old boy, 6 year old boy and 2 1/2 year old daughter. The ages were great for our kids. Even the 2 year old played with Sophia. Aubrie was obviously the odd girl out, but she didn't seem to mind! The kids all had a blast! We were lucky to get the kids down by 8:00, and then we played cards to see who would drive to Sonic for drinks. Ever since we were in college we always played to see who would go to get "something".
Saturday morning we took the kids on a hike and then we swam. The Hellwells left around 11:00 to go visit a friend in Gilbert, who just had her baby. Ben and I laid around the pool and then Aubrie and Boston and I got ready to go to Sarah and Kate Frandsen's baptism! Aubrie was so exited she was beside herself. Aubrie was beaming the whole time! I'm so glad I took her! I think it really got her excited for her baptism next month. The kids bought the girls little journals and photo albums, and of course Boston was so e
xcited to give them their presents! He was so distracted by the whole "gift giving" thing, I was worried he wasn't in "the moment". After the baptism I asked the kids what their favorite part was. Boston said his favorite part was when they "were putting their hand's on their head" (receiving the Holy Ghost), "and that he cried both times"! We'll I guess I was wrong....he was in the moment! What a sweet boy! The girls are going to LOVE him!
After the baptism we hung around to take some pictures and then we went over to their house. Just as we were heading over there, Ben called to tell me the Hellewells were back. When we got to the Frandsen's, I let the kids play a little and I helped Trina get lunch ready. I knew that I wouldn't be able to stay for lunch, but I was happy to help out! They are great friends, and I was just happy to be a part of such a special day! When we got back we swam some more, ordered pizza and then put the kids to bed. We played some more cards, and went to bed!
Sunday went well. Sophia lasted through almost all of Sacrament and Sunday School. She wasn't having anything to do with the third hour, so I was walking the halls! I was glad to get the 2 hours out of her. That seriously is progress!! After church we just relaxed. It was nice!
This week I spent getting things for Sophia's birthday, buying clothes that fit (that's a good thing!:) and getting caught up on the house. Tonight was YW. We had a video scavenger hunt! It was a lot of fun and the girls had a blast! Some of the crazy things we had to get on film included, getting strangers to sing YMCA , getting a cop to Sing "Bad Boyz", and giving a stranger a noogie! We then came back and watched the videos and had treats!
Here are the family funnies for the week!
Ethan brought his Buzz Lightyear phone to church. It's so old, so it doesn't make any sounds. He just loves to pretend it's a real cell phone and talk to imaginary people. Before sacrament started he was "talking" on his phone and then handed it to me. He said, "Mom, it's for you". I asked him who it was and he said "it's John the Baptist!" LOL
We were driving home from picking Aubrie up from dance. I took all the kids in, for once, so we could watch her dance. As we were driving home Boston told Aubrie that he thought her dance teacher was ugly. Ethan piped up and said, "No! She is gorgeous!"
Monday Ethan and I were painting. I was making a lovely scene of the ocean and then I look over at Ethan's to see a huge grey square with all these colors mixed together. I asked him what he made and he said it was a TV! It doesn't stop there. On the way to pick up the kids from school he had to take his "TV" in the car with him. I forgot to ask him what he was watching! Ha~!
Ben got some little colognes for Christmas that he never uses. So I gave them to Boston and told him to keep them in his bathroom, for him and Ethan. The boys usually use cologne on Sunday's. Well, while Aubrie was at dance Boston comes downstairs, after doing his chores, smelling like a whole bottle of cologne. It was so strong I couldn't even sit by him without getting a headache! I can't think of anything funny with Aubrie, but she is really enjoying the piano and really knows her ballet positions. Oh, she was making me laugh when I went to her dance studio. Aubrie Jazz dance it to a Hannah Montana Song. She was singing it the whole time they were performing the dance for the parents!
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Wednesday, April 9, 2008
A week late!
***to save you from confusion, this email was written a week before I posted it!:)
I just emailed a friend, telling her that I felt like I was living in one of those "life comes at you fast" commercials! I think between all the traveling last month, and all the stuff coming at us this month, (3 birthdays, an anniversary a baptism, and more) I'm running faster that I have strength! This week is no exception. Monday morning my Mom watched Sophia while I ran a million errands, which included me hauling 2 huge pots for my front patio into a Sams cart! Luckily they had a nice man there to help me load them in the car. He was a sweet worker with a terribly bad stutter, and it took him about 30 seconds to tell me I had a nice smile. That made my day! Of course. I had to buy flowers and dirt for the pots, and since we live in Phoenix, I had to plant them immediately! Ethan helped me and had a lot of fun doing it! It was a great Mommy/ Son time! Aubrie had dance as usual, and we had a nice steak (from Sunday night) fajita dinner and FHE to follow. Boston read the lesson and the kids behaved themselves! Yeah!
Yesterday included a trip to the Church Book Store. I got Aubrie's scriptures (all the kids will get their own engraved set when they are baptized), some gift cards, and a new parenting book. I'm always a sucker for parenting books. It's called "Have a New Kid by Friday". I like a lot of it's principals, and I have already started implementing them. It seems to be working!:) I really don't believe that one particular program is a cure all, but I feel that you can gather many positive things from many sources to aid the parenting process along! Tuesday night I totally spaced a girls camp meeting, while we all went hiking up on the mountain trails by our house. It was a beautiful evening, nice and breezy! The kids did well, until Ethan fell right on a cactus. The poor kid had it all in his hand, and didn't cry at all while I was pulling them all out. A few minutes later he started to whimper, and by the end of the hike he said, "my hand is all better now"! We are just thankful he didn't land head first! When we got home we watched American Idol (Aubrie was surprised that she couldn't watch it since she didn't finish her chores....credit to the new book). I never saw her get them done so fast! She ended up catching the last 15 minutes. After the kids were in bed, I ran over to Erin's so she could help me with Aubrie's baptism announcement. My computer crashed, and Ben's is giving me some problems! I think I might be ready for a Macbook!Today started early, and is still going! Here is the quick rundown. I had a nice wake up call from Sophia at 6:15. I then laid in bed for another 10 minutes and then got up and showered. I left the house at 7:40, to go to the temple. It was a girls trip, (Erin, Trina, Karolyn, Amy, Marji, Jen Sharp, and I). It was fun chatting there and back. We stopped at Cafe Rio...very yummy, and a ribbon store (where I amazingly bought NOTHING! ). Landed back in Peoria at 2:15, took Erin home, picked up the kids from school, took them to piano, picked up Ethan from the Walters, came home and laid down for 10 minutes, got up to make dinner, met up with the YW to celebrate another YW's birthday, came home and put the kids to bed, ran a gift to a friend, came home and got some hugs and squeezes from Sophia (totally loving it!), worked on Aubrie's announcement and now I am here...WHEW!!! I need to go to bed! Did I mention Ben was out of town?
Amongst all the running around today, I was totally noticing and appreciating all the kids special personality traits and couldn't help to smile because of them.
When I told Ethan to go brush his teeth, for bedtime, I found him in the bathroom SERIOUSLY combing his hair! That's his newest thing these days...making his hair just so! I was thinking "come on kid your about to go to bed, I told you to brush your teeth", and then I took a moment to just enjoy the comedic moment!Aubrie came out of her bathroom with Sophia in her arms, and Sophia's hair was all wet and made into a mohawk! It was the funniest thing and I couldn't stop smiling inside! I really think that Aubrie thinks that Sophia is her life size doll!
I tell the boys that if they go right to bed, and don't' get out, they get to put a quarter in the "Disneyland" jar. Tonight, after putting them to bed, I heard some commotion upstairs and walked into their room finding things moved around. I told them they lost their quarters and walked away. Boston called for me and I told him I didn't want to hear it, and after insisting I said "Fine, what?" He said, "Mom, I just want you to know that it was me who got up not Ethan, and I don't' want you to take away his quarter". I felt so bad, but then his honesty made me smile!
Sophia took a long evening nap ( I had to wake her up at 7:15). She was up after the kids went to bed. Having that alone time and being able to focus on JUST HER made me smile!
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Sunday, April 6, 2008
Busy week..with a Conference finale!!!
This week has been pretty hectic! I was pretty much down for the count on Monday, trying to recoup from the trip. I also haven't been feeling very well. I have been feeling very fatigued, having stomach pains and feeling a little nauseous in the morning. NO! Pregnancy is impossible for me. I'm not sure whats going on, but I'll survive. I always do! The hardest thing was that I couldn't take it easy. The week was very busy and I had to push things in high gear to get stuff done! This week I hosted a baby shower for Leslie. I really didn't do much as far as food, every one pitched in and I just made a cake and got some food for the kids. Another friend got all the decorations, party favors etc. So I don't know why I felt busy. I still had to make her gift (hooded towls) and buy the stuff to make them. In between all of that, I had loads of laundry, a house to pick up, a meeting Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday night. The shower was Thursday at 11:00 am, and seemed to take up most of the day, setting up, actually having it, and then clean up. My Mom was a gem to help with it all, and it was a great time. I was glad that I could help out and host it! So I hope it doesn't sound like I'm complaining. I guess when you sit around relaxing all weekend, throwing yourself back into real life isn't the easiest thing!
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Monday, March 31, 2008
Raliegh Trip
Aubrie and I just came back from our first Mother and Daughter trip, since she was an infant (which really doesn't count since she can't remember it!) Our good friends (more like family) from Raleigh are having their second baby. It's a very exciting time for them, especially since they have been trying for many years to have another baby. Did I mention it was a "he" and they are naming him Dawson (my maiden name if you didn't know!) I decided to surprise Abbie and fly out for her baby shower. Since Aubrie LOVES the McGee's, and gets along with Sydney (their 7 year old) so well, I decided to bring her with me. Aubrie was very excited for the trip!
Since our flight left Thursday, at noon, we had to pull Aubrie out of school most of Thursday and all of Friday. Aubrie was very excited for the plane ride. She used to fly all the time (we counted over 20 times at one point) before we moved to Phoenix. Once we moved here, there weren't any Christmas or Thanksgiving trips on the agenda! So the last time she flew was when we went to Raleigh when she was 4 1/2. So flying is a distant memory for her. Unsurprisingly, she was trying to be very independent the whole time. Wanting to help carry luggage, find her seat on her own, and figure out where our gate was etc. We had about an hour to kill, so we got some lunch at the Starbucks right by our gate, and sat down and played Go Fish. Every time we passed a Starbucks in the other airports she would say, "I love that place"! What did I start? I can just see it now at the next Testimony meeting. "I just loved when my Mom and I hung out at Starbucks together...blah, blah, blah". HA!
Finally it was time to board, and she was a little nervous to take off. The fact that the landing gear was making a popping noise, really didn't help matters! Once we were in the air, she was fine! She spent the time listening to her ipod, reading, and playing card games. I spent my time doing the same. She also liked looking out the window. The guy in our row was nice enough to switch seats with her...I'm sure he liked the aisle better!
We had a layover in Memphis and got some pizza and played some more cards. Our flight from there to Raleigh was on a little commuter plane. It was very small, and Aubrie kept making comments about how small the bathroom was, etc. Luckily the flight was only a little under 2 hours. We arrived in Raleigh at 10:00 PM and Jason was waiting in baggage claim to greet us. It was a nice surprise, much better than curb pick up! It was also nice that I didn't have to carry all the stuff to the curb by myself! Aubrie was excited to see the luggage come down the shoot and she was very anxious to find ours and "try" to get it!We got to their house about 10:30 and Sydney woke up and shot down the stairs as soon as Abbie whispered to her that Aubrie was there. We didn't see Aubrie and Sydney for a few hours, after that! Jason, Abbie and I stayed up talking till about 1:00.
The girls spent the night up in the attic, and Aubrie was in heaven with Abbie's new baby kitten. Who knows how late they were up. I took an Ambein and was "out" by 1:30!
Unfortunately, I had an early morning wake up call. At 8:30 the girls were up singing to the High School Musical Wii game. It resonated through my bedroom making it impossible to sleep. Remember now that 8:30 translates into 5:30 Phoenix time! I still laid in bed and finally was able to get another 30 minutes of sleep. Friday consisted of just hanging around the house, which was GREAT! Sometimes the best vacation is where you do nothing! The Shower was at 7:00 that night. It was at the Henderson's house (friends from the area). They did a lot of things to the inside of their house since we were there last, so It was nice to look around at the improvements. I also got to catch up, on life, with a few friends. It was nice to see a few familiar faces, even though a few is all there was. I also chatted a bit with their neighbors, who lived in Phoenix for 5 years. The commented on how they loved the weather in Raleigh. Who wouldn't, after living in "hell" 6 months out of every year! They asked me how I liked Arizona and they were surprised to hear that I liked it. Of course, so was I! Ha! I told them it wasn't the summers that sold me, but the great winters, our friends, and our church members. The shower wrapped up around 10:30. We headed home and hung out for a few more hours, including Aubrie and Sydney. By 1:30 I gave up on falling asleep and took an Ambien!
Sunday we slept until 11:00, again. Still remember we didn't' go to bed until 2:00 and that 11:00 is 8:00 our time! Church started at 1:00 and so we only had a few hours to pack and get ready for church. Aubrie loved going to a different primary! She was gleaming when they asked for visitors and she got to stand up front while they sang to her! I guess when you think of it, she really has never done that! I snuck out of 3rd hour (which is their wards first hour) to find some friend from our old ward. When I walked in the Chapel it was so surreal! I didn't recognize anyone! I finally found the friend I was looking for and after that only ran into one other familiar face! Then when we got into the McGee's second hour (which was the first ward we were in when we moved to NC) there were only a handful of familiar face. The whole 3 hour block just felt like I was in an unfamiliar place. It just didn't feel right and then I started getting sad, realizing that the place had changed so much and if we came back it wouldn't be what we once knew. Then towards the end of the testimony meeting, one of my YW when I was a Beehive leader in the ward, stood up and bore her testimony. She thanked every one of her teachers she had every had and wanted them to know how much she appreciated them since it was her last Sunday before she went off to college. (I guess Spring semester?) I then realized how much time had passed since I was in that ward, and how wards do change! Then it was affirmed to me, once again, how North Carolina is no longer the place for us and that we are right where we are meant to be! Though sometimes I feel as though I want to run for the hills, this is the place for us! Of course, I miss the trees, our few good friends that remain, being an airplane ride from family, the sweet southern smiles and the the South Carolina beaches,....oh and the not so hot summers, but for now Peoria is where we need to be! Retirement is a different story! Ha!
After Church, we rushed home, packed up the car and headed to the airport. Jason was a gentleman, parking and carrying in our luggage and walking us to security. I was glad, once again! Aubrie was sad to leave Sydney, and it came out in her behavior. She wasn't listening to anything I told her and was being more defiant than ever.

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Monday, March 24, 2008
Lost Kitty?
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Sunday, March 23, 2008
Utah in 4!
We just finished our four day trip to Utah! At first I wasn't sure if two days in Utah was worth two, 10 hour days of driving!! But, because it was the kids Spring Break and we have been wanting to get up there, I decided that we would make it work. I was starting to second guess our decision 2 hours into the trip. Just out of Flagstaff, Sophia started crying and cried for 30 minutes straight (more like whimpering....so pathetic) until she finally fell asleep. I thought, "If it's going to be like this for the next 8 hours I don't know if I can handle it!" Luckily, she was a gem the rest of the way. We made a lot of stops, so I think that helped.






After the temple, we headed to a Horse Facility that Han's wife (Priscilla) manages. Boston and Aubrie got to ride a horse in their indoor arena. Aubrie was so excited and wanted to ride longer. She kept saying how she wants to take lessons....yeah right!





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Monday, March 17, 2008
A WICKED girls trip!
This past weekend was our "Wicked" girls trip. It was a blast! We left early, about 7:00am! Leslie drove and Olivia, Erin and Nicole and I rode together on the way there. We had a fun time talking about anything and everything! Great therapy!! We got to the outlet stores, right out of Palm Springs, around noon. We shopped, had lunch and shopped some more. I went to the Coach store with Nicole and wasn't able to maintain much self control. I don't know why I'm obsessed with those dumb purses!! I ended up getting another purse. It was white, so I was trying to justify that it was for spring/summer. Luckily Ben bought Play Station 3 while I was gone, so once I found that out he didn't have much to say. I finally found a nice sweater jacket at one of the stores there, and it went perfectly with my outfit for the show. That was all I bought at the outlets, for myself. I found some other things that the kids needed, and just enjoyed running around with everyone else. I was just enjoying shopping with girlfriends, without the kids!!
Erin, Olivia, Leslie and I at the Outlets!...Thanks Nicole for taking the picture!

When the lights went down and the music started, I was so excited!! The play was great! The singing was a little better the first time I saw it, but it was still wonderful. It was hard not to sing along this time!! Everyone loved it, but how couldn't they? I'm excited to see it again with the kids!
After the play, we were all pretty tired. We headed back to the hotel, and Erin wasn't feeling very well. She went right to bed, and we followed soon after. I took and Ambein to make sure I wouldn't have problems sleeping. I warned the girls that I would knock out in the middle of conversation. Apparently, another room called and I answered and talked to Trina and Karolyn for about 15 minutes. I didn't remember doing that! I don't think I'll be taking one of those on a plane, EVER!
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Thursday, March 13, 2008
Happy 4th ETHAN!



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Sunday, March 9, 2008
Journal through pictures!
This week has had been a roller coaster and so my memory of what happened is barely existent. Luckily, I took some pictures and hey will tell this weeks story.



Wednesday, I don't have pictures, was YW. We did a service project for our Stake President. He is having a wedding reception for his daughter this Saturday and is trying to get his yard in order. So the Laurels and Priests went and helped. I felt like a wimp shoveling dirt around. My age is creeping up on me!





After about 45 minutes of playing, Ben took Sophia, to get the car, while I rounded up the other natives. While we were waiting I noticed a pretty water fountain and rounded them up to take a picture. They weren't posing like I liked so I told them to put their heads together. Taking things too literal, and being the obedient




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